Welcome to the Club isteri-isteri misali

in 3 days time, im gonna have a new biras.
i used to have one, but tak sempat nk kenal, she's gone..too bad.it's a sad sad story but i reserve my comment, for i pun dont really understand what had happened.

i really hope this one stays
so nanti i had geng to go shoping, had girls day out,gosip2, anyam ketupat (ahahaha) free babysitting services (HAHAHAHAHA!!)
hope we can get along well

whoever along choose to marry, its all fated,
and i believe she's the best for him
and i do hope along too, will be the best to her

to you both,
just remember
marriage is not only about wedding receptions, that will only lasts in few hours
but more hours, days and years to come
there's more : happiness definitely, but expect also episod2 sentap yang pastinya skrip berbeza dgn drama sentap org berchenta (hehe, trust me!) and you had to deal with it because there's no way you can break-off dah pasni..
to man, the title isteri is soo sacred, sometimes the wife herself cannot understand. so there will be things yg dulu laki tak penah kesah but now is suddenly on his topten priority list, like 'eh awat gelak kuat sgt ni, kontrol la skit' when it used to be 'eii i sukerr le dengar you gelak, kiyutt jek, gelak ler lagiii..'
and to wife, suddenly what you do, you'r bound by the husband, semua nk kena minta izin,ini tak boleh, itu tak boleh, siap dalil/hadis yg kata hasben kecik hati sikit dah berdosa, sikit2 kena ugut 'haa taknak masuk syurga ke yang??'
so what about yourself? anybody care what you feel? takde pulak sebut berdosa besar suami buat isteri menangis kan? so not fair issit?
and also remember the bride AND groom comes with the package, not just the bank account : the bad habit(s)u might never know, the families,the FAMILIES' bad habits, family tradition, the list can go on..
so be prepared to accept them, as they are.. do not waste time trying to change them overnight. just try your best to blend in.

the key word:PLAYSAFE (yup it works in ALL occassion hahaha!)

another pointer
- having subsribed to the cenel lapan ratus itu tidak menjanjikan mereka akan duduk di rumah utk tengok bola, ke mamak juaa baru boleh layann. jadi jgnlah percaya kalau suami ckp 'ye i kat kedai bawah je ni, jap gi balik laa'
- enjoy your time together while you can, go tgk wyg, holiday, layan F1 etc. nanti ada baby no way nk heret anak kecik masuk panggung wayang or surfing uptown tetengah mlm kan (eventho i did that hehe tp kes kena paksa ni) kesian baby, or rather, kesian mak baby tak sampai ati nk tinggalkan anak ;-p